Saturday, March 21, 2026

Slice of Life 2026: 21 of 31- The Poetry of Pickleball

In March, Two Writing Teachers hosts the Slice of Life Story Challenge. Everyone is welcome to share writing and comment on others in this special community. 


My brother called the other day, and his calls usually include a good laugh or two. In this one, he shared the story about he and his very athletic, tennis-playing boys heading to the pickleball courts while they were staying at an AirBNB. I'm going to highlight the racket-playing ability of these boys, as well as John. G. was a D1 tennis player, and J. is one of those natural athletes. John's decent, too. I have no doubt that these three were hitting the ball hard. 

The three of them had only two paddles, so they rotated playing singles until a woman approached them, asking to join in for a doubles game. John told the story in a much funnier way, but she kept asking and assuring them enough that they finally agreed. Even though she was older and didn't look too athletic, she was persistent and she had a couple of paddles she was willing to share. Turns out she was a pickleball rockstar, Paired with G., (the D1 tennis player) because John figured she'd be the weak link (she wasn't), John and J. didn't get a single point. "It was a total beatdown," John said. 

I had a similar, although much lower level, experience last night. I play PB at an indoor place that has regular open plays. When you go to an open play, they assign you courts based on your level, and levels range within their assignments. The rotations become fairly randomized because they are based on who finishes when. I usually know most of the people, but not last night. There were a lot of unfamiliar faces, and a lot of men. In several of my matches last night, I was with three men. The pattern frequently went like this: My partner served, someone hit it back to me (hard), I hit it back, they hit it back to me (harder), I hit it back, someone made a mistake, and we won the point. Or, they served, one of us returned, they hit it hard at me at the net, I volleyed it back. I won most of my matches by a lot because it took them too long to realize that yes, I could handle the hard hits (I actually like them), and I could dish out my own, as well. I could also change up the pace and place the balls where they'd have a tough time getting them back. 

I've come to love pickleball because of these sort of happenings. People are surprising on the courts. There's no question that G. and J. could get to be really good if they decided to practice and learn some shots other than hitting harder, but it's a game of strategy. Because of that, harder, flashier hitters don't always win. In fact, they often lose. Isn't there something poetic about that? 

Friday, March 20, 2026

Slice of Life 2026: 20 of 31- Dad

In March, Two Writing Teachers hosts the Slice of Life Story Challenge. Everyone is welcome to share writing and comment on others in this special community. 


Some days more that others, Dad is with me. Today was one of them, and I'm grateful for today and the memories. 

Maybe it was Larkin writing about the ides of the 17ths in our family. She was in kindergarten when my father fell on a 17th, but she understood the significance. 

And there was Julia's morning text, coincidentally arriving on her birthday. One of her professors invited her to present a paper which is a big deal when you're a medical student. Julia sent a picture of the official invitation, and I welled up when I saw that the topic was on tracheo-esophagus prosthetic replacement at the International Conference for Head and Neck Cancer. That was my dad's specialty. I could almost feel his high five. I could almost see him remove his thick glasses and wipe his eyes. He'd be so proud. So proud. 

And then, in our evening writing group, Lainie offered a choice of prompts, one involving recipes and one involving cars... two legendary topics when it came to my father. I've even written a post about Dad's life in cars during last year's challenge. Dad always liked to experiment with recipes. He tinkered as a winemaker, and for a while he was a bread baker. We all loved his molasses cookies. Even late in his illness, Dad would pull out the stained recipe card, make the dough, roll it, chill it, cut it, and bake it. Those were good cookies. Do I write about the day I came into the kitchen to find him watching frozen butter slam around the mixer trying to figure out why the batter wasn't creaming? It seems both relevant and irrelevant. There are days and events that are markers when a person you love is slipping away, and the day he could no longer surprise us with his famous cookies was one of them. 

Another memorable day-- a marker-- involved a car. My dad always loved cars, and maybe one day I will write some sort of anthology of car stories. (We talked about that at writing group, also!) Dad's cars had great stories. If only cars could talk! The first car I knew was a Plymouth Duster with a crocodile-textured roof. Dad liked to tell anyone who would listen (and our friends were a captive and responsive audience) about how he'd wrestled a croc in the Mississippi for that roof. We all believed him, although we couldn't really picture it. A light blue Saab, a paneled Country Squire, a sharp Sciracco, and an oversized BMW could all tell stories, but it was a red convertible that proved to be another marker. The red convertible showed up in our driveway (we lived with my parents for several years) a little over a year after we'd made the tough decision that he wasn't okay to drive. Dad didn't have many angry moments, but he often repeated his annoyance with having his car sold right out from under him. (He wasn't totally wrong about that.) We took his keys, but not his credit card. Neal from the car dealership must have been having a slow day at work because Neal took a deposit over the phone and drove that shiny car right on over to our house-- to my father's delight and our chagrin. Neal didn't get the credit for the sale, and the car returned to the lot with him. How could that have happened twenty years ago? 

I'm grateful for today and the memories. A slicer-- and I wish I could remember who it was-- wrote in a post that people are alive for as long as they're remembered. If Dad were here today, maybe we wouldn't shudder at 17ths, and he'd celebrate Julia's birthday and the awesome email she received. He'd laugh at some car memories and serve up a plate of chewy molasses cookies. 

How grateful I am for today and the memories. 

Thursday, March 19, 2026

Slice of Life 2026: 19 of 31- Happy Birthday to Julia

In March, Two Writing Teachers hosts the Slice of Life Story Challenge. Everyone is welcome to share writing and comment on others in this special community. 


One of the fun things about slicing every March is that March 19 is Julia's birthday. For those of you who haven't met Julia, you can get a sense of her here because she slices with us, even though she is a time-stressed, second-year medical student. 




As I wrote this post, it was fun to revisit some of the birthday posts I've written over the years. Here are a few from:

Today Julia is 28. Our year had some roses and thorns, as I think back on it. Medical students had a break in August between first and second year, and it was awesome to have Julia home with us for more than a few days. A definite rose. 

Julia welcomed me into retirement by getting so sick she was in the hospital for five days. I drove to Michigan to help with icing and keep her fever down, and then to help her with basic life when she insisted on going back to classes even though she was far from 100%. (Of course she did.) I'm still traumatized when I think about how sick she was, but how lucky was I to have the time and be able to be there for as long as she needed? Lucky, but a major thorn. 

I got to go back to Michigan in a more civilized way a few weeks ago to present at a conference, but also to take her and her friends to dinner and have some good playing time. We packed a lot into 27 hours, exercising, cooking, shopping, and celebrating how much fun we have. Might have been a dozen roses packed into those hours. 

Even though I won't be with Julia on her actual birthday, she'll be home next week for her spring break. I can't wait. 



If you read her blog, make sure to wish this awesome girl a happy birthday! 

Wednesday, March 18, 2026

Slice of Life 2026: 18 of 31- Empathic farting

In March, Two Writing Teachers hosts the Slice of Life Story Challenge. Everyone is welcome to share writing and comment on others in this special community. 


Clare is my third of four daughters, and in case you're reading, and you've missed it, three of my four daughters slice with us during the month of March. Clare is currently living at home since she is between jobs and a PhD program. With two slicers under the same roof, we have a lot of giggles over what constitutes a slice. In fact, in her post yesterday, Clare allowed that she had slices out the wazoo. (And, she kind of does!) Clare's post yesterday was one of her funnier ones, relaying the catapult of her electric toothbrush into an unflushed toilet. If you're looking for a laugh, you'll find one there, both in the post and in the comments. 

She started the post giving me dibs on empathic farting. Hmmm. What you need to know is that the Meehans have a lot of diagnosed and undiagnosed GI issues. Therefore, the status of our colons is rarely undiscussed. We know who's gone, who hasn't gone, and how much they've gone. While we don't have a family group chat about it, we probably could. Someone is always ready to talk about how much or little Miralax they need on a daily basis. 

Therefore, it should come as little surprise that people in our house own their farts and generally provide warning when the environmental smell is about to change. We tend to be quiet air polluters. My friends used to call them SBDs when I was in high school for silent but deadly. (Is that a thing? Or did we make it up? I'm not sure...)

The other day, Clare and I were driving home from New Hampshire, and it was raining. When she opened her window, I was a little surprised. 

"I farted," she said. 

Almost without awareness, so did I. 

"Seems like you've inspired my system to get going as well," I said, opening my window and getting wet. 

And thus, empathic farting entered the car, our language, and our world. May it not enter yours. 
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If you haven't found Larkin, Julia, and Clare, here they are. They are not educators, but they are funny, and they are good writers. I love connecting with them through writing when March rolls around. 

Tuesday, March 17, 2026

Slice of Life 2026: 17 of 31- Apology

In March, Two Writing Teachers hosts the Slice of Life Story Challenge. Everyone is welcome to share writing and comment on others in this special community. 


I didn't expect the story I got when I checked in. I expected joy. I expected excitement. I expected a gushing recount. The anger, frustration, and tears didn't match the planned experience. 

As I listened, I wasn't my best self, and I interrupted. 

"Are you sure this wasn't a misunderstanding?"
"Could you wait to borrow so much trouble?"
"You're wasting a lot of anger energy on something you're not sure of."

She assured me she was sure. And now she was even angrier because I didn't validate. 

Even as she kept going with the story and the way things went down, it didn't make sense to me. Could a company really gaslight someone so much? The believer-in-humanity part of me wanted to believe that a misunderstanding would explain a deal that was made and then was taken away. 

No, she assured me, that's not what's happening. 

I guess it turns out, yes, a company can make a deal and take it away. 

When we spoke again, I apologized for not just agreeing that the situation sucked. An easy apology because I felt so bad that the situation happened and that I didn't respond with ultra empathy. 

And, I'll continue to believe in humanity, but with a little more skepticism. Damn. 

Monday, March 16, 2026

Slice of Life 2026: 16 of 31- Umbrellas

In March, Two Writing Teachers hosts the Slice of Life Story Challenge. Everyone is welcome to share writing and comment on others in this special community. 


We were finishing dinner when Clare looked at her phone and checked the weather app. We were in New Hampshire for an admitted students day. She'd be touring campus and sitting in on classes while I had time to walk around town, maybe hike a little, and do some writing in coffee shops. 

She started laughing. 
"Have you checked the forecast?' she asked. 

I hadn't. I didn't want to hear why she was laughing. 

"We're supposed to get a lot of rain."

"Maybe they're wrong."

Clare held her phone up for me to see. Total rain. 100%. 

"Did you bring anything?" she asked. 

"Nope." I could picture my umbrella on the shelf in the mudroom. 

The two of us walked back to our airbnb (that had the cute outdoor sitting area where I guess I wouldn't be sitting) and found directions to the nearest umbrella-selling institution. 

As we looked over the selection, we debated for the mid-range option since said rain was supposed to be accompanied by lots of wind. 

A store worker was nearby and overheard us. 

"Pretty awful forecast," Clare said. 

"Not snow," she said. "Could be worse." 

True. Not snow. 

And we had umbrellas. 

Sunday, March 15, 2026

Slice of Life 2026: 15 of 31- Old friends and shared wavelengths

In March, Two Writing Teachers hosts the Slice of Life Story Challenge. Everyone is welcome to share writing and comment on others in this special community. 


After a catch-up walk, we sat down at the restaurant. We'd met earlier than planned because we both had afternoon commitments that bordered our long-standing date, and I was proud of us for both holding firm with the carved out time. As we had walked, we'd realized that it had been over a year since we'd seen each other, and K is one of my dearest and oldest friends. In an earlier post, I reflected on time. No, time isn't fast, and it isn't slow. It's always the same. It's the pace of my life that makes it feel different. 

In any case, I glanced at the menu and made a quick decision. I was hungry, and a burger sounded great. K. muttered something about a salad, and we went back to life catch up. We had a lot to cover. Even though we don't talk as much as we should, time and distance haven't gotten in the way of our wavelengths. Our lives have so many parallels, and it's joyful to spend time together. Old friends have a way of picking right up from wherever we left off. 

The waiter came over. "We have a few specials," he said. 

As he went through the shrimp soup, quiche of the day, and omelette ingredients, I stayed true to my burger plan. And then he described the salmon burger. 

"I'll have that," I said. 
"Me, too," K. said. 

Of course she would. 
Old friends and shared wavelengths. 


Saturday, March 14, 2026

Slice of Life 2026: 14 of 31- Late Night Pickleball

 In March, Two Writing Teachers hosts the Slice of Life Story Challenge. Everyone is welcome to share writing and comment on others in this special community. 


"How about one more game?" Lexi asked. "I'm rounding up the Meehan girls."

 It was after ten on a Friday night, and Lexi and I had just finished playing one last game. Clare and Cecily were hanging out with other team members, shoes off, ready to go home. I stayed on the court as Lexi approached them with her charm. I knew they wouldn't be able to resist. Lexi is a few years older than they are, and she has especially taken Cecily under her wing. She's Cecily's favorite person to play with. 

"They're in," Lexi said. "They're lacing back up. We're taking them on."

The match started, and Lexi and I surged off to a hefty start. On the other side of the court, Clare and Cecily weren't smiling. In fact, they might have been frowning and rolling their eyes. 

"Are they okay?" Lexi asked. "They look like they're going to kill each other." 

I wondered if Lexi had a sister. 

"They're fine," I said. 

We won another point. 

The storm clouds got lower and grayer on the other side. 

"Should we just call this?" Lexi asked. "We don't have to play."

"Nah," I said. "They'll work it out." 

When we changed sides, Lexi and I were ahead 11-6, needing to get to 21. 

"Let's finish this off," she said to me. 

On the other side of the court, the girls were conferring. I didn't need to ask them what they were saying. Have I mentioned that Lexi is a VERY good pickleball player. 

Play Mom, I could almost hear them saying. All balls go to Mom. 

For the next several points, a lot of balls came to me, and a lot of points went to them. #wellplayed

The mood got a little lighter, even though the time got a little later. 

And at the end of the match, they were on the winning side.

"One more match?" I joked. 

NO way. 

As a mom, I'm proud of these women. If I'm going to lose to anyone, I love losing to them. 




Friday, March 13, 2026

Slice of Life 2026: 13 of 31- Degree Appreciation

In March, Two Writing Teachers hosts the Slice of Life Story Challenge. Everyone is welcome to share writing and comment on others in this special community. 



I had already done the "what did I forget" inventory and noted a couple of key things (cash and business cards... I could live without them), but I didn't realize I'd forgotten deodorant until I went to get dressed. What an imperfect thing to forget given the fact that I was presenting in the afternoon. I'd definitely need some. 

At the front desk, I asked the woman where the nearest store was where I could buy some deodorant. 

"I got you, honey," she said, handing me a small container of Degree. 

Crisis averted. 

Then, I headed across the street to the convention center. The stream of people were a 50/50 split of men and women, and everyone was in business casual- first clue that I wasn't in the right place. And then the banners were touting a pharmaceutical company. Clue #2. 

I looked around for someone who worked there. Worker #1 didn't seem to speak English. Worker #2 had no idea where the Plain Talk teacher conference was. 

Thank goodness for that hotel lady and Degree. 

I called Dan, the only person I knew at this conference. 

"Where is this?" I asked. 

He laughed and explained where I had to go. It turns out that the New Orleans Convention Center is really big, and it hosts several conferences at a time. Noted. 

The rest of the day went without Degree-testing moments, and I was happy to toast the day with Patty McGee who arrived around five after a much more harrowing travel experience than I'd had. 



Thursday, March 12, 2026

Slice of Life 2026: 12 of 31- Airport Anxiety

 In March, Two Writing Teachers hosts the Slice of Life Story Challenge. Everyone is welcome to share writing and comment on others in this special community. 


Travel days have a way of heightening any anxiety I may already be feeling. #airportanxiety

Cecily drove me to the airport, and I spent the first few miles mentally reviewing what I'd packed and what I'd forgotten for quick trip to New Orleans. I'm presenting on my new book, and guess what I forgot? A copy of my new book. That's okay. Corwin will be there. I can get a copy. And this conference allows ZERO self-promotion any way. I also forgot cash. That's okay. Venmo covers tips these days, and I shouldn't really need any cash. It's sort of a security blanket these days. 

Still that naggy forgetting feeling... 

I arrived at the airport with plenty of time since my mother had been sharing dire reports about long lines at security. I whizzed through the TSA line, and I even knew to let them know about my titanium knee, so we didn't waste time with me setting off the walk-through alarm. I went straight to the spinny thing and placed my feet in the yellow footprints. 

Once inside the airport, I debated wine or coffee. Wine sounded great, but I had a lot of work to do. I got coffee and treated myself to an iced lemon cake since I'd made the better decision. 

I found myself an end seat in the airport with a plug next to it, and I placed my backpack strategically next to me to discourage anyone from sitting too close to me. (Apologies if you're reading this and wanted that seat!) Then, I finished the reports I had to do, wrote a bunch of emails, scheduled some slice calls... thanks Starbucks! (A better choice, right?)

Anxiety diminished until a lady with a cough sat down next to my backpack. Traveling. Tough to have a relaxing travel day. 

Wednesday, March 11, 2026

Slice of Life 2026: 11 of 31- Dinner...Delivered

 n March, Two Writing Teachers hosts the Slice of Life Story Challenge. Everyone is welcome to share writing and comment on others in this special community. 


I'm not very good at saying no. 

On Tuesdays, I have a pretty full tutoring line-up. I have a 2:30 student, a 3:30 student, a 4:30 student, and a 5:45 student, all in person. When I made that schedule, I figured I could use the bathroom at 5:35. So far, that is working out for me. 

Every other Tuesday, I have a California client. It might be late for me, but for her, 7 ET is the perfect starting time, so Tuesdays, as planned finish up around 8. 

Except when I get an unexpected text from a parent. 



Remember, I'm not very good at saying no. And I also love these twin girls. 

Garth was already on dinner-making duty, planning to have a burger ready for me when I got home late. I texted him. 




I wasn't positive about his meaning with Ok, and I didn't have time to clarify it. Was it "Ok" to being late? Or "Ok" to bringing me dinner. My office is 18 minutes away, so it's not a small request. Just as I was finishing up with my California girl, he walked in and set a plate down on my table. (I should have snapped a picture for a slice, but I think I was too hungry at that point.) 

Luckily, Garth isn't good at saying no either. :)



Tuesday, March 10, 2026

Slice of Life 2026: 10 of 31- An early publishing explanation

In March, Two Writing Teachers hosts the Slice of Life Story Challenge. Everyone is welcome to share writing and comment on others in this special community. 


Perhaps this slice will help some things make sense to some readers... 

As planned, I made it to the car service place only two minutes late. I knew I'd packed in a lot for the morning, so I was pretty proud of myself for my almost-timeliness. Then, I made sure to gather everything I'd need for my 60-90 minute wait. I had a list of all I'd accompllish during that time. With the car checked in, I found myself a seat, pulled out my laptop, and logged in using the dealership's wifi. I was feeling pretty competent. 

First on the list... getting the calls for slices written up and scheduled for the remainder of my hosting days. (There's a fair amount that goes on behind the scenes, and I did not want to be the reason anything goes less than smoothly!) I checked the calendar to make sure I knew how many days. Got it. 

Then I started going through the posting checklist. Fonts set? Yes. All components included? Yes. Featured image? Hmm-hmmm. Blurb, title, reread... done, done, done. Time to schedule for publish. 

When I went to do that, I hit publish, expecting the calendar to set the date and time. 

Post published, the screen read. Your post is now live. 

*&^%$%^.    *&^%$%^.        *&^%$%^!!!

You can all be impressed that the last line I wrote representing the words I was saying stayed as inside voices. I might have startled some people. 

I scrambled with the post and the keyboard, wrestling through the correct screens and magic formulas to haul that post back into draft form and get it scheduled for 12:01 am TOMORROW. 

And... my inbox merrily let me know about a new TWT post, as did a few other messages, calls, and emails since. So yes, my slice for the day. Sorry everyone!! 

Monday, March 9, 2026

Slice of Life 2026: 9 of 31- A Book Giveaway

In March, Two Writing Teachers hosts the Slice of Life Story Challenge. Everyone is welcome to share writing and comment on others in this special community. 


On Saturday morning, I arrived at the Lansing Convention Center, excited and ready to present at the Michigan Reading Association Conference. Way back when, when I'd agreed to head to Lansing, March 7 felt like a long way away. Time is like that. 


I'd promised myself that I'd remember to take pictures. I didn't do a very good job, and this is the only one I took. When I thought about it more, I realized that I have always presented with other people. We take pictures of the group of us together. It was strange to present by myself. 

Throughout the presentation, I worried about the time. An hour goes by fast when you're trying to fit everything in, and you know there's too much for the number of minutes. Again time is like that. It takes forever when you're waiting for something special to happen, and it flies by when there aren't enough minutes. How is that one minute is the same amount of time regardless of what is happening? 

Since I knew that my new book would not be available to purchase at the conference, I brought a copy with me. After I finished the session, a few people stayed to ask questions and talk about practices. One woman pulled up a picture of her 3 year-old daughter. 

"What do I say to her teacher?" the one whose name I wish I knew asked. 

The teacher had sent a picture of several children hard at work tracing sight words. 

This woman's daughter held a pen in a fist grip. "She has no idea what she's writing," the woman said. "I wish there was more fun happening."

We talked about how hard it can be to be an educator and send your children to school. Of course, there are things you'd do differently or that you wished weren't happening, and yes, tracing words before a grip is mastered could be one of those wish-they-weren't-doings. 

"Your daughter will be fine," I said. "She has you." 

But we both expressed some worries for some of the children who don't have a knowledgeable parent. 

"What can I say to her?" she asked. "Without coming across as the parent who knows everything."

I'd brought one copy of our book, and on an impulse, I handed it to her. 

"Take this," I said. "Tell her you were at a conference, and the presenter gave you a book, and you're sharing it. All true. Maybe she'll find ideas that will benefit your daughter and also other children in the class."

"You're giving this to me?" she asked. 

"I am," I said. 

She gave me a hug and headed off to lunch. Maybe someday I'll know her name.