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I had my first "big girl" pickleball match over the weekend. Back when Ben asked me if I'd be interested in playing on the interclub team, I wasn't sure. I still feel like I'm in recovery mode with a new knee (TKR in February 2025.) I know the other people who play, and it's a tight (and friendly, very nice) group. I'm not used to having time to do things like this (but I do).
There was a time in my life when I loved playing inter-club tennis matches, so I expected and knew the drill. I got to the away club a little early with a full water bottle and some decent snacks.
(Side Note: I stopped to get those snacks along the way, and I have a funny slice to share from that stop. I'm saving it for next week.)
Nerves were at play when they announced the first matches. I'd never met my partner until that afternoon, and she didn't share much other than how much she plays competitive racket sports. I have a lot of theories about her. Maybe she was also nervous. Maybe she'd had a bad morning. Maybe she wasn't happy to be paired with a newbie.
We fell behind in the match through a collection of their good points and our mistakes. After they won a second (or third) point by hitting in the middle and capitalizing on our lack of communication, my partner communicated.
"If it's in the middle, it's my ball," she said. "You go for it, and then we're out of position."
I made sure to clear out when the ball was in the middle, but I also had to work to clear out my self-doubt and negative self-talk. All part of the game.
But man, if you're wondering about the power of positive for anyone who is on shaky ground, don't wonder. Maybe it would have made the difference of the three points between us in the final score.
I commend you on trying a new group. Although I don't play sports, I understand the self-doubt and negative self-talk! I would have been a puddle when your partner corrected your position. I look forward to hearing how things are going by the end of the season.
ReplyDeleteIt’s amazing the difference both communication and positive self talk can bring. If you end up partnered with that person again, maybe you can bring that up. : ) Good for you for trying some new things, especially things that involve lots of movements by your knees.
ReplyDeleteYour line about clearing out the "self doubt and negative talk" could be MY theme for life. BUT, good for you reaching out of your comfort zone and trying something new.
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